
1.Dan&Darci Taba Squishy Making Kit
Girls design and build six cute squishy animals themselves, a hands-on craft that suits the 9-year-old love of trendy squishies.
Nine-year-old girls are often caught between little-kid play and big-kid independence. Many love making things, reading series, practicing a sport or dance routine, and having something to do with friends. The gifts that land treat her like the capable kid she is, with real materials and room to express her own taste instead of a one-size-fits-all pick.
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Girls design and build six cute squishy animals themselves, a hands-on craft that suits the 9-year-old love of trendy squishies.

Beads and enamel charms of favorite Squishmallows let her design 25+ bracelets and accessories to wear or trade with friends.

Washing the scruffy fur ball to reveal a tie-dye pet, then adopting it with a certificate and carrier, makes for fun nurturing play.

A fast, silly slap-the-pile game that 9-year-olds pick up in a minute and play with friends at a birthday sleepover.

A fairy-tale adventure series that suits 9-year-old readers who want a big, immersive story to get lost in.

A glowing, rechargeable neon drawing board lets her doodle and erase endlessly with bright colors and light effects.

The laugh-out-loud "what am I?" headband game is easy to learn and gets the whole family or party guessing.

A glowing ankle skip ball with a jump counter turns active play into a personal-best challenge for energetic kids.

Fifteen short tales about confidence, friendship and creativity written for girls turning 9 make a thoughtful birthday keepsake.

A stationery and stickers kit with 200+ pieces lets her decorate her own journal, perfect for a creative 9-year-old.

Polish pens, glitter, gems and stickers give her a spa-style nail design session for sleepovers and dress-up fun.

Step-by-step drawings of cute animals, food and more help her build art skills and fill sketchbooks on her own.
It varies widely. Common requests include art and craft kits, books, slime and DIY projects, sports or dance gear, board games, and room decor. The most reliable approach is to ask a parent what she's into right now and buy within that interest.
Try an experience or a skill-based gift instead of another toy: a hands-on kit for a new hobby, a class supply set, or a book series. Consumable crafts like painting or candle-making kits also work well because they never add to the clutter.
Not necessarily. Many nine-year-olds still enjoy dolls, collectible figures, and plush, often in more detailed or creative ways, like building scenes or making outfits. If you're unsure, a craft or game is the safer pick, but don't rule out a favorite character.